“Handle Hard Better” are the words that Duke University’s women’s basketball coach Kara Lawson said in a speech to her team. The video of her not even 3 minute speech went viral, inspiring hundreds of people to share with Lawson how they are handling hard better. “We all wait in life for things to get easier. It will never get easier. What happens is you handle hard better.” What does it mean to handle hard better? HOW does one learn to do it? Worship leaders: Rev. Darcy and Sharon Arpoika.